T-ladies are made into women, we are not born female, it takes time and money to transition from male to female.
I am on estrogen, the female hormones which gives a T-lady female characeteristics, such as losing facial hair, growing women's breasts, losing muscle mass and getting a softer body and softer skin, getting wider women's hips, etc... The estogen in many ways gives us a woman's body.
I have also had all of my facial hair and chest hair removed with laser and electrolysis, and I of course keep my legs and underarms shaved smooth
The only hair I have is my pubic hair, which I sometimes shave, and the long blonde hair on my head. I wear my hair long, it is beautiful, silky straight long blonde hair that is appox. three quarters of the way down my back.
We were not born with a woman's body, we were born male and looked male. We have to be made into females. You have to have facial femininzation surgery to give you a woman's face. I had work done on my nose, forehead, chin, jawline, it is extensive and costly to be given a woman's face and a woman's body. I have also had breast implants. I have a 36-24-36 figure. I am completely femininzed. I look just like a woman and a very beautiful and very feminine lady. I also have learned to talk, walk, and act like a woman and have female mannerisms.
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My man, a handsome, masculine guy named Jay, who is my future husband, paid for my feminization.
The only part of me left that is still male is my genetalia. So I am a She-Male.
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I am going to have my sexual reassignment surgry in a few months in Thailand. I will be castarated and given a beautiful vagina. After that I will be completely a woman, and will have my legal status changed to female and then am going to marry my handsome, masculine loving man Jay and be his beautiful, feminine, loving wife.
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Many T-ladies always wanted to be girls, ever since they were little boys, they played with dolls and wanted to be girls, they were very effeminate.
These days many T-ladies start on estrogen in their teens, and then when they are 18 start living and dressing full time as women and then have their feminization surgeries and become She-Males or completely transexual women.
In places like Thailand, effeminate boys who want to become girls are put on estrogen when they are 13 or 14 and start living as females then and are trained in by T-ladies that are older than them on how to be a successful T-ladies, how to look, act, walk, and talk like women, how to please men sexually and otherwise, how to be loving, sumissive, feminine ladies, etc....
Many of those transexual teens are then given sexual reassignment surgery, or in some cases kept as She-Males and are given to wealthy Asian men or Western men who make them their wives or mistresses. Thailand is known for both it's beautiful genetic women and their beautiful "ladyboys", their beautiful transexual women.
One of my best ladyfriends is a beautiful, very feminine transexual woman from Thailand who was femininzd in her teens, and then castarated and given a beautiful vagina when she was 18 and then married a wealthy American man after her legal status was changed to female and became his wife. She and her husband recently adopted two Asian children.
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I am a little different than many T-ladies who are lifelong femmes. I am in my 40s, and I was a hetrosexual man who was married to a women and have four daughters. In recent years however, I became more gay, started dressing as a lady, and started dating handsome, masculine men and taking on the woman's role in the relationship. I started dressing full time as a woman and then decided I prefered to live as a loving, submissive, beautiful, feminine woman.
So I divorced my wife, and started my femininzation process and am now living with my loving man Jay as his beautiful, feminine lady.
My ex-wife, who is a wonderful. loving, beautiful lady, is very accepting of my transformation from male to female, we have become best girlfriends. My daughters accept me also as a woman. LIke my twenty year old daughter Melinda told me, she lost a dad, but gained another mom. I am fortunate to have such lovely family members. And I love being a beautiful, feminine lady! I am in my 40s but look like I am in my 30s and because of the estrogen and my surgeries, I look exactly like a woman and a very beautiful and feminine lady at that! I love being a lady!
I hope that explains some things to you darling. Best wishes in finding a beautiful, feminine T-lady!