Welcome back eggplant

kisses,

Kristy

Hi Eggplant and Kristy!
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I haven't been on the boards for awhile. I have been going through some changes.
In early Feb. I broke up with the man I was going to marry. It just wasn't working out.
I met a handsome, masculine new man that I get along with alot better.
I actually met him over a year ago, and we started dating.
Also in mid-Feb. I got some more facial feminization surgery. I now have the beautiful, feminine woman's face that I wanted. It has healed nicely, my new man loves it. I am completely femininzed now. I look and act like a lady, I have no trouble passing. In fact people have told me I look more beautiful and more feminine than many genetic women do, (as does Kristy and some of the other beautiful and feminine transexual ladies here on the boards).
I also changed my name. I am now going by the name Angela.
Before I transitioned from male to female I was named John, so when I transitioned to female, I called myself Johnette. But I never really liked that name that much. I look and feel more like an Angela.
My hair is still very long, it is growing. It is now appox. four fifths of the way down my back, and I continue to go to my beauty salon to have the color touched up on my long blonde hair, and my long tresses deep-conditioned to keep them sensual, soft, silky, and beautiful. I wear my long hair all sorts of ways; in a bun, an updo, a high ponytail, down long and loose down my back, and bunned and under a headscarf to protect my long tresses when the weather is bad, when it is too windy, snowy, rainy, etc..
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I still wear dresses and skirts, rarely jeans or pantsuits. I went shopping with my new man the other day, and he bought for me a couple of beautiful new dresses, a new cute little handbag purse, a sensual silk/chiffon fashion scarf, some sexy lingerie, and a beautiful pair of long dangle 14 ct. gold earrings.
I have a really good wardrobe now of beautiful dresses, skirts and blouses, fashion scarves, earrings and jewelry, etc..
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I was going to have my sexual reassignment surgery in Feb. in Thailand. But after I broke up with my man, I decided against it and cancelled it.
The man I am with now, is a wonderful tall handsome masculine man named Craig, who looks so gorgeous in a suitcoat, slacks shirt and tie, he is a businessman in his early 30s who often dresses like that and I love it on him!
My man Craig is in his early 30s, and I am in my mid-40s. but I look younger than my years, I look like I am in my early to mid-30s, and especially since I transitioned to female and was given a lady's face I look younger.
Most people who meet me believe I am a lady in my early to mid-30s.
My man Craig loves me as a lady, and loves the fact that I have transitioned from male to female and am a beautiful feminine woman. But also he likes me as a pre-op transexual lady, and would like me to keep my male genetalia, while the rest of me is female.
So for now, I am not going to be castarated and given a beautiful vagina, but am keeping my ladystick, my male genetalia.
I have considered just having my testicles removed and keeping my penis, just have a lovely ladystick, because if I was to be castarated and have my testicles removed and keep my ladystick, I wouldn't produce much testosterone, and wouldn't have to take as much estrogen as I am taking. Some pre-op transexual women do that.
However, for now, I am keeping both my testicles and my penis.
My man loves my beautiful woman's face. my beautiful woman's figure, and beautiful women's breasts, but he also likes my feminized ladystick.
He is a wonderful handsome masculine man who loves me and treats me so well. He really knows how to treat me as a lady. I love him and am very much enjoying being with him. We have already discussed getting married, that is possible at some time in the future. But for now we are just dating, being together, making love, enjoying each other.

I hope all of you are doing well.
Take care.
Much love,
Lady Angela

Thanks for the welcome, Kristy. It's good to be back. What's new in Kristyland?

Angela, it's wonderful to read what you have to write. I sincerely hope that your transition continues to please you, as I hope that all of us are able to please ourselves as we make our own life transitions. It truly sounds like you are a beautiful woman now, and that's very exciting. It also sounds like you have met a good, wonderful man. I am sorry that your previous engagement didn't work out, but that's almost always for the best.

My hopes and aspirations are that you are totally happy and content in your new body. It sounds like you have some big decisions to make in the future. Please, Angela, make those decisions for you, and not for anyone else.

Remember that you are loved as long as you love yourself.

Egg

Thank you darling.

Eggplant, what is your real first name? It seems so odd to refer to you as Eggplant. lol!

Take care.

It's so great to see both of you!

Angela - what a beautiful name. So is eggplant (hehe). Would you like me to change your username to match your new female name? Just let me know. That won't be a problem.

Craig just sounds dreamy. I'm so glad for you and just want you to be happy. Whether you choose sex reassignment surgery or not is a very personal decision and either way is ok. I haven't done it yet even though I have been very tempted at several points in my life.

Eggplant - I'm attending school to learn more about graphic design. That has me hopping. I kind of have a crush on one of my instructors. It probably isn't what you think. The instructor is a beautiful woman, about 30 years old, 5-8 with a hot body. She has the sexiest eyes and lips I think I've ever seen. It's getting so hard to keep my mind on the class material.

Hugs 'n Kisses,

Kristy

Hi Kristy!
I hope everything is well with you. Best of luck with your graphic design classes!
It would be nice to have my board name and my posts changed from Johnette to Angela.

It's done Angela, you'll need to use that name with your normal password to log in. Let me know if you have any problems.

Kisses,

Kristy

It works!

I am on the boards as Angela!

Thank you Kristy!

You're welcome!

Kristy,

You DO sound busy. Graphic design, huh? Sounds fun. Are you carving out a new career path in your empire? I am considering going back to school as well. However, tuition being what it is these days, I may just continue to learn life lessons and forget about academics.

Oh, and I am jealous of your teacher.

You can call me "Egg" for short, Angela.

Angela is a lovely name.

Hey Egg!

Kristy, you're looking delicious as usual.

Thank you Adam honey!

Adam,
You are gorgeous, you are a very handsome man!
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Kristy,
You are so beautiful and feminine, and such a wonderful role model for transexual women!
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Kristy,
I know what you mean about sexual reassignment surgery, it is a difficult decision.
I don't feel like any less of a lady not having it done,..... after all, thanks to female hormones, breast implants, electrolysis removing my facial and chest hair, facial feminization surgery giving me a beautiful feminine woman's face, etc., I am a lady.
I look, dress and act like a lady, and everyone assumes I am a feminine woman, no one even knows I am a transexual woman and not a genetic woman unless I tell them.
So just because I still have my male genetalia, my testicles and my ladystick, doesn't make me any less of a lady.
Two of my best friends are transexual women, and both have had their sexual reasignment surgery, and had their legal status changed to female, and married men. They have both adopted children with their husbands.
This isn't an issue with me, because I have four daughters that I fathered when I was a man with women, and my daughters and my two ex-wives totally accept my transition from male to female. So I don't need to get married to a man and have my legal status changed to female and adopt children, because I already have children. I can understand how transexual women who want their legal status changed, want to be legally married to a man, and want to adopt children, want to have their sexual reassignment surgery.
For transexual women that don't have or want their own children, or who already have children, it isn't an issue. They can have their sexual reassignment surgery or not have it, depending upon how they fell about it.
Both of thosze transexual women friends of mine who had their SRS have both have told me if I do decide to have sexual reassignment surgery, I will really love my new vagina, and I myself sometimes love being a lady with a ladystick, but sometimes I also want to have a vagina.
I know several transexual women who have had their sexual reassignment surgery, but I also know several transexual women who are pre-op or non-op. So I know different types of transexual women
One of my ex-wives, Carol, has encouraged me to get SRS. Some of my genetic women friends believe I should have it done, but others don't seem to care. My ex-wife Monique and my two oldest daughters in college, have just told me to do what I feel like doing.
Ultimately it is my decision, not my man's, or my ex-wive's, or my daughter's, or my ladyfriend's, either transexual women friends or my genetic women friends, it is not their decision. I appreciate their opinions but it is my decision.
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The man a transexual lady is involved with though obviously influences her in this regard, especially if the man and the transexual lady are in love, and living like husband and wife.
So it also depends upon the men in the transexual woman's life.
Does her man want her to keep her male genetalia, as some men do want for their transexual women, or does her man want her to have her sexual reassignment surgery?
In the case of my two transexual women friends, both of their men wanted them to get the sexual reassignment surgery.
One of the transexual women really wanted to be castarated and given a vagina, she couldn't wait for it to be done, and she loves her new vagina.
The other transexual woman was reluctant, she loved being femininzed in every way with her female hormones, breast implants, facial femininzation surgery, etc., she loved being a lady, but she liked being a lady with a ladystick and sort of wanted to keep her male genetalia. However she really loved the man she was with and wanted to please him, so she went ahead with it, she was castarated and given a beautiful vagina. It took her awhile to adjust to it, but now she is glad that she got it done.
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So I know there are various factors involved whether a transexual woman keeps her male genetalia or has her sexual reassignment surgery.
Either way though, she is stilll a woman, a pre-op or non-op transexual woman who has been completely femininzed who looks like a woman, dresses and acts like a woman, and is assumed to be a woman by others, is a woman, just a woman with a ladystick instead of a vagina.
In my case, my man likes both genetic and transexual woman, and he likes both women with a ladystick or with a vagina. My man Craig was married to a genetic woman and has two small children with her, so obviously he likes women with vaginas.
However since Craig got divorced and has been dating transexual women, and is now my man, and I am his lady, he has gotten into transexual women with ladysticks, he loves beautiful, feminine transexual women and likes the fact that I am so feminine and a lady in every way, but I still have my male genetalia. Like many men who like transexual women, he finds having a beautiful, feminine woman with a ladystick to be exotic and different, and he likes it. He would, at least for awhile, like me to keep my male genetalia.
One thing I have discussed with my man is having my testicles removed but keeping my ladystick. That way I wouldn't have to take as much estrogen as I am taking. It could possibly be healthier.
However, at least for awhile, I am going to keep both my testicles and my ladystick.
Ultimately it is my decision, but of course the man I am with and in love with and he loves me, does have some influence. I love the fact though that he loves me as his beautiful transexual lady with a ladystick. He treats me so well, like a lady, and we get along so well. I know he loves being my man, and I love being his lady.
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I have had so much surgery and feminization over the last year and a half, with my electrolysis removing my facial and chest hair, my breast implants, my facial feminization surgeries, not to mention the change from having male to female hormones and going from having a male body and face to a female body and face.
It has been such a change, a change that I love, I wanted to transition from male to female, and I love being a beautiful, feminine lady, and I love being accepted as a lady, and being with a wonderful handsome masculine man, but still I have had so much work done on myself changing me from male to female. I need to take it easy for awhile, before I make a final decision on the last part of my femininzation and my transition from male to female, whether or not to have sexual reassignment surgery , or to keep my male genetalia, while in every other way being a lady.
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Take care everyone. Enjoy the spring weather and have a very good weekend.