Hey Kristy. I noticed you're a kinky girl. What is your favorite fetish?

I love your shemale pics and videos.

John

Hi Jesse,

My favorite fetish? I'm glad you asked. Well, that question makes me stop and think. I generally love sex, not necessarily for the act of sex itself, but for the intimacy between two people. Ok, Ok... I like the sex part too!

I enjoy a number of fetishes including leather, BDSM, shemale domination, penis torture, stillettos and foot fetish and some other variations of the above. I'll try almost anything provided it is legal and not too distasteful.

My absolute favorite fetish is to do a little role playing where I'm dressed very seductively in a short skirt, stockings, high heels, a lacy blouse unbuttoned to reveal just the right amount of cleavage, with sexy black lingerie hidden underneath. I've met a guy who doesn't know I'm transsexual. We start kissing and making out and the sexual tension starts building. As our sexual tension builds his hands start roaming and he finally discovers my hidden shemale clit. He is shocked, but very worked up at the same time. After pausing to think about it, he rolls me over to a doggie style position and begins sexual intercourse, gently at first gradually giving way to furious, wild sex! After he cums, he rolls me over and sees that I'm noticably aroused. A short break to recover and he is orally satisfying me, which doesn't take very long!

This is based on a true situation that happened in 1998 shortly after I transitioned and became full-time femme. I have relived the experience several times and each time it is fantastic. I've had other sexual partners and explored other fetishes, but this remains my favorite.

Hugs 'n Kisses,

Kristy

I don't know if this is a fetish, but I'd like to be the guy with Kristy!

That's a hot fetish which I wouldn't mind participating in. I'd luv to get surprised by u...if anything, your extra package would excite me rather than scare me!

That's what I like to hear!

Kristy

My two cents.

I have to admit, that while I have had a lot of sexual experience, I am not very "fetishistic." (Many people think that an attraction to trangendered girls is a fetish, but that seems perfectly normal to me.) I don't like being tied up or tying up, food is simply messy and distracting to me, and feet, while often attractive, are not objects of sexual attraction to me. My fetish, I guess, is creating as many orgasms as I can for my partner. I guess I am just boring.

My sexual experiences with transgendered women have been very intimate, thrilling, tender, and, (I hope,) mutually fulfilling. I do fantasize about what Kristy described, and I also have a fantasy about pleasing several transgendered women at once, which I have never had the pleasure of experiencing.

I find the following hottt: A shemale forcing a guy/girl on her cock, and then face fucking him/her in all possible positions.

I hope the language is appropriate.

Hey, are shemales passionate/proud about size of their "tool" ? I think that when a shemale is bigger than a guy, the guy feels submissive and must drop down on his knees and satisfy the shemale cock!

Hi there darlings, all of you handsome men who love us She-Male ladies!

To answer your question about She-Male male genetalia;
Most She-Males are on estrogen, which diminishes the penis virility and male sexuality. That is why we refer to our penis's as "ladysticks". I am his submissive She-Male lady. He has the big virile penis. I have the estrogen influenced ladystick (which I am eventually going to have removed, along with my testicles, I am a pre-op transexual lady who will be castarated and given my beautiful vagina next winter in Thailand).
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One of my favorite fetishes is to have my man Jay wrap a beautiful, sensual, feminine fashion scarf in and around my mouth and be scarf gagged.
I love beautiful feminine fashion scarves.
I love the soft sensual fabrics, the silks, silk/chiffons, chiffons, rayons, polyesters, etc., and I own numerous beautiful, sensual scarves in various sizes, shapes, and colors, that I wear as neckscarves draped over my shoulder, or I tie my silky, past mid-back length, long blonde hair back in a high ponytail with a fashion scarf dangling down my back, or tie in little chiffon scarves into my updo when I am wearing my hair up.
I even sometimes take one of my little chiffon scarves and tie it around my wrist as a feminine fashion item.
Since I live and dress full time as a woman, I have plenty of oppurtunity to wear my gorgoues, sensual, feminine fashion scarves.
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I love getting dolled up in a sexy silk/chiffon skirt, with pantyhose, high heels, a beautiful woman's blouse with my silicone breast forms and bra (I am getting my breast implants soon and won't need the breast forms much longer, and I am on estrogen and have already had my facial femininzation surgery), and a pair of long dangle earrings, my eyeliner, mascara, lipstick, and perfume, and then wear a beautiful, soft, sensual fashion scarf to enhance my feminine look. I love it!
I love having my man take one of my beautiful scarves and scarf gag my mouth in a cleave style and then wrap another scarf around that, so that I am completely scarf gagged. I love the feel of the sensual scarf in my mouth and my face. And then after he has subjegated me with the scarf gag, I love it when he takes me from behind and makes me his lady.
I also love being scarf gagged, and then when my man Jay is ready, he undoes my scarf and I give him a blow job and suck on that big beautiful penis of his, please him and take his love juice into my mouth. He is such a handsome masculine man and has such a gorgeous unit, I do love pleasing him!
I love pleasing him as his submissive lady, both by having him take me from behind as his lady, and giving my handsome loving man oral sex. I love him so much, and so enjoy pleasing him, being affectionate with him, and loving him, and I know Jay loves me as his woman, he shows me in so many ways that he loves me, he isa wonderful and affectionate lover, he loves and adores me and I am his lady.
After my sexual reassigment surgery next winter in Thailand, I am getting married to Jay. I will be his loving wife, and he will be my loving husband.
I would get the sexual reassignment surgery anyway, I love being a woman, but having a handsome, loving husband does help. I know I will love being his wife and lady.
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My preference for a look on a man;
I love a tall handsome man with a trim, athletic build like my man has, in a well tailored, suitcoat, slacks, and tie, especially a dark suit in black, dark blue etc..
My man Jay is in business and dresses like that for work, and often when we go out. I love the professional masculine look on a man, with a short businessman's well trimmed haircut, not a crewcut, not that short, but a standard handsome businessman's short haircut. Jay has his hair cut like that, he has beautiful wavy blonde hair. We are both blondes and I wear my hair, as I mentioned, very long down my back. My long tresses are straight and silky and I spend alot of time and money on shampoos, conditioners, and at the beauty salon, keeping my long blonde hair beautiful for myself and for my man to enjoy. He loves my beautiful long tresses, and I love wearing my hair ultra-long..
I love dressing up my feminine best for my man, in one of my most sensual skirts, nylons, high heels, earrings, makeup, etc, and then greeting my handsome man when he comes home from work or after we go out, and hug him and kiss him and undo his tie, taking off his suitcoat, undoing his slacks and pleasing him. I also love it when he pushes up my skirt and pulls down my panties and takes me from behind as his She-Male lady.
Sometimes Jay is so hot when he gets home that he doesn't even bother undressing me, he just takes me from behind, buries his head in my silky beautiful long blonde hair, covers me with his kisses, and pushes up my skirt, shoves that big beautiful, virile cock of his into me, and goes to it. I love it!

Take care darlings.

Love,
Lady Johnette

Wow Johnette -- I think we all know more about you now!

I hope Jay knows what a lucky guy he is. I'm sure he does.

Thank you for sharing this with us.

Adam

I am into the kinda shemales that have pride in their stick and love to use it. I am sure there are plenty.

Thank you Adam!

Dynamix,
If you expect a She-Male that is big and very virile, with a masculine penis, they had better not be on estrogen. And if they are not on estrogen, they won't be anywhere near as feminine and like a woman. Estrogen causes much of the femininzation of She-Males and transexual ladies.
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You can't have it both ways, estrogen changes male sexuality, it turns a man into a woman (along with other femininzation), but it makes a She-Male far less virile.
We can still come, but we are not as virile when we are on estrogen. That is just the way it is. It is a tradeoff. In every way the estrogen makes a She-Male feminine and like a woman. Without the estrogen, you basically just have a man in drag. And that is not a She-Male lady.
You have to decide what you want. A She-Male who is just like a woman, except for her ladystick which is femininzed, or a man in drag with a big virile penis. You really can't have both, it is an impossibility.
You need to be the masculine one in the relationship with your She-Male. She will expect that from you. You need to be her man, she isn't your man, she is a lady.
What you need to understand is that She-Males are like women, and expected to be treated like women. We are the feminine ones in the relationship, we are ladies.
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If you want a truly feminine She-Male, who is on estrogen, and who looks, feels and acts like a woman, don't expect that She-Male to have a man's sort of penis. We have estrogen ladysticks, and are proud of our demasculated shrunk testicles and our beautiful limp penises, our beautiful ladysticks, we indeed have beauitiful femininzed testicles and penises, but our men love us the way we are, ultra-feminine and ultra-feminized, on our female hormones, our lovely estrogen making our male genetalia ladylike, with our feminine faces, breasts, hips, voices, and our beautiful, demasculated, femininzed, ladysticks.
Our men are the virile masculine ones, not us. She-Male ladies are on estrogen, we are femininized, limp wristed, limp dicked, ladylike, feminine. I am the submissive feminine lady in my relationship with my man Jay. He takes me as his lady, he penetrates me, I don't penetrate him, I am his woman, his ladylove.
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In my case, it won't matter for much longer anyway. My man does enjoy my feminized ladystick, but like myself, he is looking forward to me being castarated, my testicles and penis being removed, and being given my new beautiful vagina, as I complete my transition to being a complete lady.
By this time next year, I will legally, physically, in every way, I will be a woman, I will be post-op, and I will be my man Jay's wife, and he my husband. And I love being a lady! You would never know then that I once was a man. And I love it, the more feminine and ladylike I become, the more my man loves me, and I love him. I am so enjoying being made into a beautiful lady!

Johnette, I understand your comments about impossibilty of having optimum feminine features with big penis. I like very feminine shemales, but there are plenty of attractive shemales with big ones.

Darling, I was refering less to size than to virility. Any She-Male who is feminine is on estrogen, and any She-Male lady on estrogen is less virile. That is scientific, factual, it is the effect of the estrogen, it is the way it is with She-Male ladies.
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I had an average sized penis before going on estrogen and my femininzation. I still have an average sized penis, but I am less virile, I am now a She-Male woman with a beautiful feminized ladystick (soon to be given a beautiful vagina next winter in Thailand).
My man Jay loves my ladystick and sometimes uses his hand to get me off, and sometimes gives me oral sex, but he is the masculine, virile one in the relationship, he is the one who pushes up my skirt, and then he takes me as his lady and he penetrates me from behind, I don't penetrate him.
I also love giving my handsome man Jay oral sex, taking his big beautiful virile manstick in my mouth, massaging his big beautiful virile manstick with my feminine lipsticked mouth and tongue, careesing it inside my mouth, and pleasing him.
I adore pleasing my handsome loving man, and he adores me and loves taking me as his lady.
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My gorgeous loving man Jay has his big, beautiful, strong, virile manstick, and due to the estrogen, I have my beautiful, feminine, less than fully virile, ladystick under my chiffon skirts. Jay is my handsome masculine man, and I am his feminine beautiful woman. The She-Male is the lady in the relationship.
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I am the one who is in silk and chiffon, I am the one in the skirt, nylons and high heels, in the makeup and lipstick, with my long blonde hair cascading down my back, and long dangle gold earrings glistening from my pierced ears. I am the one who is submissive and feminine. And I love it!

Johnette, I wish you the best of luck with your situation. But I have to say that there are many admirers who are attracted to T-girls specifically because of the T-girls penis function. But there is no doubt that T-girls are expected to look very feminine.

You still are not getting the scientific truths of what I have been stating.

It is like this;
Some of the photos you see of She-Males with huge firm cocks are altered photos.
In some of the She-Male videos or DVDs, She-Males who are ultra-feminine who look just like ultra-feminine women and have been on estrogen for a long time are given viagra or some such substance.
The fact is this, and this is true with any She-Male; estrogen reduces male sexuality and virility on anyone that uses it. It just does. As I stated, it is scientific, it is the effect estrogen has; estrogen reduces male sexuality, and there aren't any exceptions to this.
Estrogen is female hormones, and it makes the She-Males much more feminine; it gives the She-Male women's breasts, wider hips, more feminine skin, etc.., while also reducing male virility. That is what estrogen does to anyone that takes it.
In many photos of She-Males with fairly large cocks (or penis's of various sizes), you will notice that their cocks are relatively limp, if the photos have not been altered.
You will also notice that the She-Males that are the most virile in videos or DVDs are often the least feminine She-Males. They either are not on estrogen, or they just started taking it, or are taking it in very small amounts; so it hasn't effected their virility that much yet. They aren't that feminine yet, as a She-Male who has been on fairly strong doses of estrogen for some time is.
It is impossible for any She-Male, if they have been on substantial doses of estrogen for any length of time, to be completely firm and virile to any great extent, like a man not on estrogen is. It is an impossibility.
The longer the She-Male is on estrogen, and the stronger the dose is, and the more femininzed she is as a result of that, the less virile she will be. There is no disputing that. Ask any doctor who prescribes estrogen to a She-Male lady.
Ask any She-Male lady who has been on a relatively strong dose of estrogen for any substantial length of time. If they are honest with you, they will also tell you that what I am stating to you is true.
At times, because I haven't been on the estrogen for that many months, I am much more virile than at other times, it varies. At times I am still very verile.
Of course because I am pre-op, it won't matter that much longer anyway, since I will be given the gift of my beautiful vagina next winter in Thailand. Which will be lovely. I love being made into a woman and getting married to my handsome loving man Jay and being his beautiful, feminine wife.
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What baffles me though is that some men seem to be mostly interested in the She-Male's penis than they are in the She-Male herself, or her femininity. They seem to want to be with a She-Male who has a bigger and more virile cock than they have. Some of these men want to be the submissive in their relationship with their She-Male. They want to be on the recieving end of it.
Maybe these men are actually gay men, or perhaps men who want to be She-Males or transexual women themselves. Otherwise why would they want a She-Male that is very virile like a man is, and be in a feminine role in the sexuality of the relationship?
Virtually all of the She-Males I know do not prefer a man like that. They want a masculine man who is able to be strong and dominant and more virile with a bigger cock than they have.
Very few She-Male ladies want a submissive sissy boy who wants us to have a bigger more virile penis than the man in the relationship has. We want our men to be the masculine ones, the dominant ones in the relationships. We don't want to take our men as ladies, we want to be taken by our men as ladies.
We are into being women, we enjoy being submissive and ladylike. That is part of the fun of being made into a She-Male woman or a transexual women. We are feminine like women.
We are ladies, not men in drag with big virile cocks. That defeats the whole purpose.
If you are mainly interested in a man with a big virile cock who dresses as a woman, then go get a male drag queen. Us She-Males are not men in drag, we are women on estrogen with ladysticks if we are non-op or pre-op like I am.
My man Jay would hate it if I had a bigger, more virile cock than he has. He is the man in the relationship, he is the masculine virile one with the big firm penis. I am the She-Male woman with the ladystick. I like being the feminine submissive one in the relationship.
I wouldn't want a bigger, more virile penis than my man has.
Most She-Male ladies feel like I do, we want a masculine, virile man who is into being the masculine man in the relationship, just like we like being the submissive woman in the relationship. We are like women in this regard, we are in the process of being made into ladies. I have never met a feminine She-Male lady or a feminine transexual woman that didn't feel this way about it.

Johnette, you are quite a thoughtful person and speak the truth.

And maybe I am just hypnotized by shemale porn illusions. And I am well aware of some of your points, such as virile shemales with big cocks, who have noticeable masculine features, which I find repulsive. But regardless of shemales cock size, I think it's the ability to use it that spices up the shemales appeal.

Johnette, so I guess the majority of real shemales feel the same way as you. Perhaps, the porn industry misrepresents shemales. You also have to realize that many shemale admirers are purely interested in sexual aspects, which they watch in porn just for the sake of exploring sex.

Many of the She-Males in the porn industry make the porn films, or have their photos taken, because they need the money, some of which is used for their feminization process and for their sexual reassignment surgery. Many (but not all) of the She-Males are pre-op, they will eventually be castrated and given a vagina and be completely made into transexual women, which is their preference.
In my case, I made my own money previously, and am also with a wealthy guy, my future husband Jay, so I don't need the money, I don't need to do any porn to pay for my femininzation or sexual reassignment surgery, or whatever. I have money, thankfully.

By the way, I don't judge any She-Male who goes into the porn business because she wants to pay her bills, or just because she enjoys it. To each their own. I am very libetarian about such things (as long as safe sex is practiced of course).
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I am excited tonight because tomorrow I am going to my beauty salon and getting a body wave perm for my long blonde hair. My hair is very long, two-thirds of the way down my back, and very straight. I am not getting a spiral perm of tight curls or anything like that, I am just going to get a very loose body wave, so my long blonde tresses will cascade down my back in long waves. I am so looking forward to getting my hair done that way. While at the salon I am also getting a massage, my nails done, and my makeup professionally applied.
My 19 year old daughter is going to the beauty salon with me, she wears her blonde hair in a short pixie hairstyle, and she is getting her hair trimmed, and also getting a massage, her nails done, and a professional makeup application. My man Jay is paying for both myself and my daughter's day at the beauty salon, which is sweet of him. Jay is always so good about paying for my beauty services.
I get my long hair deep-conditioned at my beauty salon on a regular basis, and use the best shampoos and conditioners, mostly Aveda and Redken shampoos and conditioners. I also periodically use a claryifying shampoo, and if I am going to be out in bad weather, I pin my long tresses up in a bun and wrap a big headscarf over and around my long bunned hair to protect it. I take very good care of my lovely, silky, long blonde hair and love having beautiful long tresses. The estrogen I am taking is also very good for my beautiful long tresses.
I love the feeling of going out for a walk on a balmy spring or summer night, wearing my long blonde hair down long and loose down my back, and wearing a sensual silk or chiffon neckscarf draped over my left shoulder, and wearing a fluffy, sensual chiffon skirt, nylons and high heels, with my makeup and lipstick on, wearing a little French Hermes perfume, carrying a little handbag purse, and wearing a pair of long dangle earrings, and then feeling the soft breeze blow through my beautiful long blonde hair, my long dangle earrings, my fashion scarf, and my chiffon skirt. I feel so beautiful and feminine, it is a wonderful feeling, I love it, I love being a lady!

Concerning my family, my daughters and my ex-wife are very accepting of my transformation from male to female. And we are still all of us very close, which is lovely.
I go shopping, go the beauty salon, go out to resturaunts with my ex-wife and my daughters. I also get along well with my daughter's boyfriends and my ex-wife's new man. It isn't a problem, they accept my as a transexual lady.
Like one of my daughters told me, she is losing a dad but gaining another mom.
It does help to have a supportive and accepting family, who will appreciate me as a woman, and I very much appreciate them.
And of course I love being loved by my man and loving him. I am so looking forward to being the loving wife of my wonderful, loving, handsome man who loves me as his lady. I am so much enjoying my life as a beautiful, feminine transexual woman. It feels very good to be a lady.

Johnette, it's obvious that most shemales use porn for money that will eventually transform them into full females. Porn is probably the best option for most, but there are few fortunate ones who have better options.

I think it's also true that most shemale admirers lose interest in the post-op shemales...the pre-op phase is probably a period of fun & money spending for the admirers and the shemales.

Snapping out of fantasy porn world into the real world...It's nice that your life is working out well.

Thank you darling.
Things are going well. And my femininzation is going very well also.
I am nearly done with my facial and chest hair removal. I have had my facial femininzation surgery completed on my nose, chin and forehead, and now have a beautiful woman's face. Soon I will be getting my breast implants. I have nearly completed my course I am taking on speaking in a feminine manner. I have a wonderful wardrobe of women's skirts, dresses, and clothes, lingerie, bras, earrings and jewelry, fashion scarves, women's shoes, etc..
I walk and talk and act like a woman, I know after my femininzation is complete, I will have no problem whatsoever of passing as a beautiful, feminine woman. And of course next winter my femininzation will be completed after I am castrated, and given a beautiful vagina, and then my sexual transformation to being a woman will be complete, I will have my legal status changed to female, and get married to my handsome man Jay.
I do love it!

I almost forgot to mention, my daughter and I are going shopping tomorrow after our beauty salon appointments. I am going to buy some new earrings, jewelry, fashion scarves, and maybe a purse.
I am not sure what my daughter is going to get, but Jay is giving both of us some money to shop with, so it should be a lovely day tomorrow with my daughter!

Ok Johnette. I have few more questions before we end our dicussion; Do the most feminine attractive shemales enjoy receiving oral sex? Hey do you know if Kristy has a belly button tattoo?

Yes darling, attractive, feminine She-Males enjoy both giving and recieving oral sex! Of course!

Awesome! That's what I wanted to hear!

By the way, do you know if Kristy has a belly button tattoo? I still don't have an answer.

I have been reading through all of the posts on this thread. Fascinating!
Kristy and Johnette, you are such feminine, sensual, intriguing and beautiful shemales. You are quite the ladies!

Thank you Ted. You are such a gentleman, I love what you write!

a hug and a kiss darling man

Your She-Male lady friend,
Lady Johnette

Thank you Lady Johnette.

I've had mixed results with the t-girls I've met. It seems to me that most who identify as "shemale" are more comfortble with their sexuality. The t-girls who identify as transsexual are less comfortable with their sexuality. This seems to be due to the incongruity between their genitals and their gender within their mind. Apparently, using their genitals is a painful reminder that they aren't completely female. That's a shame really, but I have also found that talking about it and being understanding can sometimes overcome the transsexuals' discomfort.

Crossdressers are another story, best left for another day.

Adam

I believe it is not so much a question of She-Males being more or less "comfortable with their sexuality", than transexual women. I am sure different She-Male and transexual women are "comfortable with their sexuality" in different ways.
I'm sure every beautiful, feminine, She-Male and transexual woman has her own unique sexuality that is valid for her. Most She-Male women and transexual women are very feminine. But we have different ways of expressing our sexuality, one not necessarily better than the other. Just different.
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In my case, I prefer to be taken as a lady, by my man.
I AM the woman in the relationship, and I am a loving, feminine, sexual submissive who loves to please my man in the ways that he enjoys. And he pleases me.
My man takes me as his lady. He treats me as his lady. I am submissive to him, and he penetrates me, I don't penetrate him. He doesn't want me penetrating him, he considers me a female, a lady. And I don't desire to penetrate him, I'm a submissive, and a lady. I have that role in our relationship, and I love it.
My man and I are equals, I am a liberated woman, but when we are making love, he is the man and I am the woman.
Those are our roles with each other, we are both comfortable with that, and both Jay and I love it.
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I do however, love GIVING AND RECEIVING oral sex. I love giving my man oral sex, and I enjoy him giving me oral sex. My man has his big strong masculine manstick, and I have my feminized ladystick.
So I use my male genetalia in some ways, and not other ways.
So those are the ways, the roles, that myself and my man Jay have with each other. We are very loving with each other, and we both feel quite comfortable with those ways of lovemaking with each other, we do very much enjoy it.
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I don't dislike still having my male genetalia, I enjoy having it and using it, and my man enjoys it, but I do consider myself a woman, a pre-op She-male transexual, in every way a LADY except my male genetalia.
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Eventually though I will be castarated and be given a beautiful vagina, so then I'll be a lovely transexual lady.
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I am enjoying being a She-Male lady, and I will enjoy being a transexual lady.
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I respect She-Males, whether they are no-op, pre-op, or post-op transexual ladies. They are all beautiful women, and I am delighted to be one of these UNIQUE, FEMININE, AND BEAUTIFUL WOMEN.

Johnette, I'm so happy you're active on our shemale forums. You always post thoughtful comments and I always love reading what you have to say. I can relate to much of what you say about your sexuality. I'm pretty uninhibited myself, but I have similar preferences to those you stated.

Hi Adam sweetie. It's nice to be back around.

Thank you Ted - that is always so nice to hear. It takes a fair amount of work to become feminine and to stay in shape, so I love hearing positive comments. You're a sweetheart Ted.

Dynamix, yes I do

I hope everybody is doing well.

Hugs 'n Kisses for everybody!

Kristy

Thanks Kristy!
You are beautiful!

Kristy, Thanks for finally answering my question about the belly-tattoo!

I was confused, because on some pics you had it and others you didn't. When did you get it anyway?