Hello Kristy,

I just joined the forum and love your website. I have been dating transsexual women for about two years now. I live in the SF bay area, and love the TG/TV scene, and very lucky to live near the big city with so many gorgeous TS women to meet and date, and so many awesome nightclubs, singles bars, etc. I'm 44, white, and have been divorced from a 'traditional' women for a few years now, and have truly found myself. I have found my passion in dating transgender ladies. Thanks so much for your website, support and disscussion group here! Oh, and Kristy, you truly are the most beautiful TS woman ever! Best... John

Hi John,

Any girl likes to hear that she is attactive. It especially means a lot to me to hear it, so thank you! I really must get back to San Francisco. I've been there a couple times and always enjoy it.

Anyone reading this who likes t-girls should go to San Francisco and check it out, if you haven't already. You can view a list of Bay Area TG friendly nightspots.

TS4Play.com also has a list of TG friendly nightclubs in the United States and Canada.

Appreciate your post John.

Hugs 'n Kisses,

Kristy

Hi Kristy,

I have a question for you sweetie, that has been on mind for many months now. As you read from my recent post, I've been dating exclusively transsexual women for over 2 years now. I regularly see about a dozen ladies, some pre and some post-op. I prefer pre-op woman, especially those who are on female hormones, since their bodies and breasts are rounding out so beautifully, and look like you do Kristy (although none will ever come close to your radiant beautiful figure). Kristy, of all these t-girls, I have been seeing one very special woman, a pre-op for I guess probably about 8 months now. Tonia is her name. Tonia is above all of the others. Very sophisticated, classy lady. Petite, soft, feminine , totally passible, and painfully beautiful. She also models as you do (her modeling agents have no idea about her sexuality). I see her several times a week now, often spending the weekend at her apartment. The word 'love' has been mentioned often lately. Hell, I'm falling for her huge. A beautiful face, long dark brown hair and gorgeous blue eyes. She has a perfect 'manliness' between her thighs if you understand, which I need and desire this in a transsexual woman. She and I both know that I want her not to have the surgery, but she wants it more than anything in her life. At the same time, Tonia and I have the most unbelievable sex life imaginable, nothing like I have ever had with any woman before. We have have talked about her having surgery a lot lately... but I just want to change the subject. I was married to a 'natural' woman for many years and know all about pussy, and how to please them. I am a very kind, gentle, caring kinda guy and willing to sacrifice for her, and put my needs second to hers, if this will make her happy and full-filled. Conceivably she could afford the surgery early next year. I don't want her to do this, but I care so deeply for her, I don't want to lose her, and honestly I am getting tired of dating and never getting anywhere. Yeah, I love to date trans gender woman, go clubbin in the big city SF, it is addictive. Its also a risky life-style though. Should I try to convince her not to have the surgery to keep our relationship simple, or should I go ahead and give in, knowing that this will have a huge impact on us and our sex life. I know that it takes girls a long time to adjust to their new bodies post-op, since I know a few friends that had surgery this past year. Tonia recommended that we go to a few counseling sessions, some gender touchy feelly discussion group stuff, so we did. It helped me understand her to a much deeper level. Should I just give in? She has wanted this surgery for years. I'm 44 and she is 34. She has lived as a woman since she was a teenager. I don't want to break her heart or ruin her dreams. Kristy, any advice? Love, John

about the post below, i really think that she should get the surgery. I mean you are not the one with the "dream", and besides that it is not your body either. If she chooses to get it, then she should. after all she is just following a dream.

Yes, I agree completely here

Hi,
Thanks so much for your reply. I agree. Yes, I have talked this through with Tonia and she has her heart set on her surgery..... I am now completely supportive of her decision, and am doing everything I can to help her... I was hesitant at first, naturally, but now I am excited for her.... thanks so much for you post. Tonia will soon become the complete woman that she has always wanted to be. John