Hi Wes,
I love a man in uniform

And I thank you for protecting our Country.
Finding a t-girl isn't always easy. I recommend that you post personals on multiple web sites and that you search the personals. Just be careful and exercise good judgment when meeting people.
Posting on various message boards such as this one is also a good way to meet people. Just get involved in the conversations and you'll soon be meeting new friends - both t-girls and admirers who can give you advice to keep you headed in the right direction.
Good luck with your search!
Hugs n' Kisses,
Kristy