So many people message me looking for marriage, so I feel this needs to be explained.   I only have multiple open relationships, where we look at people as human beings and not objects of possession to control, as marriage and monogamy do with...Read More

Intro to Kendra, a Flower   All of my life I existed as a dormant seed until 2005, when all those years of existence finally changed. Somehow I survived and have fully embraced the entire being within myself. I have not spoken with my entire fam...Read More

Intro to Kendra’s Poem This is a poem I wrote sometime when I was around 12 yrs old from what I recall. I had already called myself Kendra when I was a young child.               ...Read More

just wanted to share how happy i am that i have found this community, helping me to feel so accepted as myself, good about myself, not so crazy or f-cked up (well, maybe that last part isn't true....)Read More

Ok, so it happened. We had talked about it, We had discussed the idea that, it should happen in the fullness of time, at the appropriate juncture, at a mutually agreed point, we would definitely have further discussions on the possibility of this happe...Read More

A strange thing happened to me this week, I was at a local mall, where it is too close to my home to be enfemme, I was shopping in guy mode and a GG came up to me and flirted with me, it was the only time in my life a GG told me, that I am a beautiful ...Read More

It has been a year since I joined URNA (time flies) and I just wanted to say thanks for the very warm welcome I received and for all the great new friends I have made!  :)  Here's to many more years celebrating femininity together. ...Read More

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40 years of marriage and I have nothing more to give - what next?  I am watched closely, she does NOT know I dress and would not approve, , has used sarcasm and belittlement to the point there is no love there.  Although I do have ED, there h...Read More

So it has been a little over a week since our discussion about Sarah. We both agreed taking things slow is a good idea. Hell we are both nervious. We joked about sharing clothes, she snorted saying I was much smaller than she is. Her eyebrows rose...Read More

I know girls, this may not be the right post for here, forgive me if it is not, but y'all have been good to me so far. I have recently started dating after a year ( I know shock horror, someone having activities outside of dressing), and have been see...Read More

[Last edited: 3/10/13]   Hi everyone:   This is a long read, but packed with info! I'm posting because I get asked all the time what venues, clubs, or events in NYC are TG-specific or TG-friendly.   Paradoxically as big a city as N...Read More

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  Well, thought I'd post something and see where it goes. Unfortunately I haven't had much time to dress lately, drives me crazy but it's just the way it is I suppose. I spend a lot of time on the road, so most of my girl clothes are back at home...Read More

Well, what can I say, been busy woking, miss being able to dresss, but, have to pay the bills!  Wish I had more cahnces to get dressed, practice my makeup and the like, sometimes, girl time is just so hard to find...  Anyhow, just a few thoug...Read More

Mi nombre es Ruby Harman, de Colombia, vivo en Bogotá y es el mismo sitio donde nací, en 1960 soy de una familia tradicional pero he decidido hacer mi propio espacio como mujer,  las mujeres como yo se catalogan como mujeres trans, s...Read More

I am so glad that I'm here at this site. This is a far better place to be at than my previous one. The overall population is friendlier and supportive. I too would like to thank the people that have warmly welcomed me to site and I hope to continue tha...Read More

Went to my first meeting with a great group of girls. I learned a lot, and hope to go back many times but the Friday evening traffic was bad. Has anyone tried the new Reader's Digest diet? I bought the Google app for my tablet. The high-protein low fa...Read More

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After 12 years, I finally re-worked http://www.tangledwebsites.com using Wordpress. I've decided that I should start writing a tech blog. Since we hace so many tech people on URNA, what do you all think? Ideas for articles? Read More

I thought the weather man said it was going to warm up and be sunny, well they got the sunny part right but not the warm up , I had to go to the bank and deposit a check soo I thought get dolled up and wear a short skirt and thigh highs maybe flash a t...Read More

Hi, Hope you don't mind this one. I just came across it. I went to the other Catholic school in that area. K deserves quite a bit more than an apology, but guess this is a start. https://www.change.org/petitions/st-francis-preparatory-high-school-...Read More

My most recent contract ended and I find myself with some time to devote to URNA until I find and start the next one. Digging through the code, and my files, it occurs to me that a LOT of time has passed. Let's see. URNotAlone is 18 years old! I've be...Read More

Just a bit about myself. My stats you can see in my profile so I won't go into those here. I have been dressing fully for 30+ years so I guess you could say I have some experiance. I have dressed both at home and in private at hotels over the years. I ...Read More