Looking for fun.

I live a composed, conventional life and value calm, well-defined connections. I’m tall, slender, and intentional—someone who functions best when expectations are clear and continuity matters. There’s a quieter side of me that responds deeply to refinement and direction. I take care with presentation and feel most at ease when that care is guided—when options are reduced, standards are established, and consistency becomes second nature. I prepare deliberately and settle best when roles are understood without needing to be revisited. I’m drawn to men who notice nuance and think long-term. The kind of confidence that shapes without spectacle. I respond to steadiness, to decisions that remove uncertainty, and to guidance that allows me to relax into a more considered version of myself—maintained, not improvised. Subtle correction matters. So does continuity. I tend to absorb instruction quickly and prefer when it’s given cleanly, with the assumption it won’t need repeating. This would be discreet, unhurried, and built on trust. Privacy is essential. So is allowing something to develop without naming every adjustment along the way. If this resonates, you likely already know how to begin.

Longtime crossdresser trying to figure out where I go from here.

Submissive sissy

I like femininity, if a sissy cant pass then they are a sissyboi and they should strive to be as prissily feminine as a boi can be. If a sissy can pass then they should strive to become a sissylady in all regards and aspects of their lives. Old School, Conservative beliefs. My late wife’s best friend from childhood all the way till right after we got married has come back to live near her children with her spouse. We are completely sissifying and feminizing him to be our little sissy maid. Not looking to meet up as I have a submissive couple now living with me. Update: as of 6/1/26: my submissive couple has moved in with me and my MIL. Our sissy is now transitioning to fulltime sissygurl and is striving to be a true lady in all aspects of her life. Update: 7/1/26: it has been decided that my extended family is growing as not only have my submissive couple moved in with us but also both of their daughters and their 3 daughters. And as of 8/1/26 we will officially move into our new home for all 9 of us(which are already living in).

I am a married white male....bi....interested in meeting a fun sensual lady for a mental and physical connection....i have dressed before and loved it but open to being with a fun lady as a male.....thanks

This site, kinda funny. I am Ms-Congeniality on fetlife. Stop by and say hi. We girls join this site because it is safe and made for girls like us to talk with each other for support, camaraderie, advise and/or companionship, but when we log on, we hide our profiles. Why is that? I admire the transformation process. Nothing is sexier than having a plan to transform and spend the whole day doing it. Take the time do each phase correctly. The feeling of becoming submissive while doing so is intoxicating. It is also powerful knowing that I can turn on a special someone and exert my femme side to get just the reward I want. That is pure power. Painting my face knowing that someone just might be lucky enough to come on it then putting on the crowning glory of a wig to finish the fantasy of Debbie.

Lifelong cd love lingerie and romance also adore whereby and phone sex

Gay or bi effeminate crossdresser

Relaxed and fun fella. Fun chats are great. Life is way to short to take everything super seriously

Single and love being myself in all things .

Like to chat to nice interesting ladies

CD looking to new things

Hi all

Older black male affection addict. Neither Dom nor sub but rather devoted to respect and sensuality in women regardless of genotype. Feel free to stop and get acquainted.

I am a middle age crossdresser who has been closeted forever. Wife knows but doesn't care for my love a femininity. I am finally ready to find some friends and see where this journey can go! Prefer my age or older. Better late then never...Right????

Forcefully feminise me. Make me your prim and proper little lady, totally and permanently, all against my will

Very longtime, mature Crossdresser, a “gynosexual” person who adores all things feminine. I am into other CDs, transsexuals and genetic women. Really not at all attracted to men because I am not into masculinity. Love other CDs/tgirls who dress head to toe as women and pay attention to all the little details associated with femininity. Crossdressing is very erotic and sexual for me, but always temporary. I live a male life, but, oh my, I adore my femme time! Love camming as a woman with other feminine persons. Am very much committed to a real meeting soon with another tgirl for fun!

young gurl trying to find her way!

Attractive passable crossdresser seeks accepting female, other cds or men. Love showing off my legs in short skirts/dresses and heels. Would love to find a friend.

Full Time Pre-Op Trans Lesbian Woman seeks SAME or CisWomen for chat and maybe more Former NYC Brooklyn gurl Not particularly attracted to the male species most are useless worthless creatures with very few exceptions. If you haven’t got a photo. Please DON’T waste my time!!! Will share pics Selectively Oh btw for the guys no Dick pics please or you WILL be Blocked !!

just a pet looking to be collared :3 ama

Same “Kelli”, but I needed a new account. Anyway, thank you for the opportunity to be part of this amazing community! I believe I first started chatting here in the previous version of URNA, 2006 or 7. I didn’t have any friends but in time I began to connect with people who were “like me”! ? I chatted for about 10 years, then I needed to step away for awhile—5 years. I came back to chat in 2022. I was missing the girls! They are so special to me, in the previous version and of course nowadays. Love you girls!! ?(and yes, a few fellas too ?) I was about 7 when I was thinking about whether I was a boy, or not. A few years later, I found out that I wasn’t a boy, internally. I didn’t have a sister (one older brother), so of course, my mom was my outlet to beginning dressing. I bought my first feminine clothing at 18, and I was happy So happy! I kept my feelings to myself…years and then decades, and no one else knew about me. Eventually I accumulated the equivalent of 5 or 6 big suitcases full of feminine clothes and stuff. But I was very lonely too. I eventually had a girl (cisgender woman) who was interested in me…and 2 years later we were married. But for 6 years I didn’t tell her anything about me, I just thought I was “cured by love”, and for a time it seemed right to erase my feelings about being a woman. But not really, I was living a lie. I couldn’t that anymore so i came out to her in 2005. Make a long story short—devastating, heartbreaking, but also forgiving, but eventually no….divorce in 2009, one day later I became “full time”, and moved from Illinois to Northern California in 2010. I’ve never been happier! After being unemployed for 9 months (my previous job i worked for 22 years back in Illinois), I was hired at Walmart, stocking goods at night (10 years), and by then i was a full time woman, and I was treated kindly all throughout my time there. In June, 2015, i had a stroke, , 3 years of hormones was one of the causes. Thankfully no physical problems, just my speech (speech therapy for 6 months), and nowadays my speech has improved significantly. In 2022, because of my recent health issues, i was not able to work anymore. These past few years became difficult, many medical procedures, but with help of doctors and nurses (and me!), I began to feel better about my health. And I am living alone (I had roommates for 16 years), so this is wonderful! In July 2023 I became legally Kelli Nicole Elam! Thank you everyone who helped me along the way, here and everywhere else. Love you girls and guys! Hugs and Kisses!!

I am Hagatha, Lady of the Dark Fae. Married and proudly asexual, I am here for conversation, connection, laughter, and a little bit of fae mischief. I welcome anyone who can respect that I am not seeking romance or sexual interaction. If you are kind, respectful, and willing to honor my boundaries, my door is open. Come say hello -- the Dark Fae are not nearly as frightening as the stories would have you believe.