Preparing For Shemale Sex

I have recently been asked, “What can I do to prepare myself for sex with a shemale.”

There are several ways you can go about preparing yourself.

1. Enemas are among the most common responses to this question.

2. Use lots of lube but don’t use any of the desensitizing lubes as they tend to do the same to the penis.

3. Start with your fingers (the massage, finger, stretch method). I’ll go into this method further later.

Enemas

Let’s start with enemas: They can be messy, and uncomfortable when done wrong. The best way to do an enema is standing up, using warm water, only squeezing enough warm water in to feel like you’re bloated, then sit on the toilet and continue like you are using the bathroom. You should do this even the night before or about an hour before anal sex.

Lubrication

Next, we will explore the issue of lube. It is okay to use a lot of lube. I recommend using lube on the outside of your ass and don’t be afraid to insert some in it as well. This will make it slide in easier if its your first time and as a bonus it wont hurt as much. There will be some pain involved, don’t get me wrong, unless you have done this many times before it will. I recommend not using the desensitizing creams or lubes due to the fact that it will do the same to the man. He will have less feeling in his penis when he puts it in your ass. We all wanna feel what we are doing when having sex thats why we have sex, right? So, please, don’t use the desensitizing lubes. It will not feel natural.

Practice

Finally, the last way to prepare yourself for anal sex with anyone is: Practice. This includes using your fingers, toys, and even vegetables. Quite a large number of people have told me that using fingers is how they got started. They would rub their assholes with their fingers and it would give them an overwhelming sensation in a good way. If you’re going to prepare for anal sex with a shemale, I would recommend a lot of practice using this method.

Here it goes, get comfortable, lay on your back or whatever works for you. Make sure you have lube, some type of penetration toy like a dildo, your finger, or anything that can simulate a penis, big or small. Slowly caress your asshole with your pinky finger (as it is the smallest one) continue doing this until you can slide it in your ass, continue to do this using your next biggest finger. This will help stretch your asshole out slowly so as not to tear it and the more you do this the easier it will be come the day that you have that awesome experience with the person you are gonna have anal sex with.

Good Luck Out There!

Thanks for reading this post. I will try to write another one ASAP. I welcome suggestions on topics. Send me a comment about what you want to know about and I will help as best I can.