I'm an affectionate and empathetic person who is exploring some emotional sides of myself I have been reluctant to take forward due to the "normal" expectation's, boundaries and limitations of the circumstances i have made for myself. I do have a family and require discretion and privacy. I have been a secret crossdresser and fantasist of being with a person who is between genders - male to female predominately but exploration of ones self in a safe and willing environment (for all persons) who could entice me to try uncharted waters is something i am always willing to consider. In my younger days i was sports mad, but age and time has slowed that down somewhat being more of a spectator these days, but I do have a physical outdoor job which I enjoy. Initially i do wish to make friends and maybe take things further over time, and if circumstances do change for me in the future then maybe something more serious but one step at a time. I consider myself caring and thoughtful. I'm more of a romantic and like to believe in karma, treat others as you wish to be treated. i also try to live by a few proverbs which in time will reveal themselves. I will reveal more to the right persons as time goes on, my ideal friend at the moment would be feminine, secretive, confident, sexy, give what they want to receive, happy and fun, loving.