long time crossdresser been doing it for decades just starting to come out of the closet.looking for like minded friends and support .especially ones from western ny.

Same “Kelli”, but I needed a new account. Anyway, thank you for the opportunity to be part of this amazing community! I believe I first started chatting here in the previous version of URNA, 2006 or 7. I didn’t have any friends but in time I began to connect with people who were “like me”! ? I chatted for about 10 years, then I needed to step away for awhile—5 years. I came back to chat in 2022. I was missing the girls! They are so special to me, in the previous version and of course nowadays. Love you girls!! ?(and yes, a few fellas too ?) I was about 7 when I was thinking about whether I was a boy, or not. A few years later, I found out that I wasn’t a boy, internally. I didn’t have a sister (one older brother), so of course, my mom was my outlet to beginning dressing. I bought my first feminine clothing at 18, and I was happy So happy! I kept my feelings to myself…years and then decades, and no one else knew about me. Eventually I accumulated the equivalent of 5 or 6 big suitcases full of feminine clothes and stuff. But I was very lonely too. I eventually had a girl (cisgender woman) who was interested in me…and 2 years later we were married. But for 6 years I didn’t tell her anything about me, I just thought I was “cured by love”, and for a time it seemed right to erase my feelings about being a woman. But not really, I was living a lie. I couldn’t that anymore so i came out to her in 2005. Make a long story short—devastating, heartbreaking, but also forgiving, but eventually no….divorce in 2009, one day later I became “full time”, and moved from Illinois to Northern California in 2010. I’ve never been happier! After being unemployed for 9 months (my previous job i worked for 22 years back in Illinois), I was hired at Walmart, stocking goods at night (10 years), and by then i was a full time woman, and I was treated kindly all throughout my time there. In June, 2015, i had a stroke, , 3 years of hormones was one of the causes. Thankfully no physical problems, just my speech (speech therapy for 6 months), and nowadays my speech has improved significantly. In 2022, because of my recent health issues, i was not able to work anymore. These past few years became difficult, many medical procedures, but with help of doctors and nurses (and me!), I began to feel better about my health. And I am living alone (I had roommates for 16 years), so this is wonderful! In July 2023 I became legally Kelli Nicole Elam! Thank you everyone who helped me along the way, here and everywhere else. Love you girls and guys! Hugs and Kisses!!

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I am Hagatha, Lady of the Dark Fae. Married and proudly asexual, I am here for conversation, connection, laughter, and a little bit of fae mischief. I welcome anyone who can respect that I am not seeking romance or sexual interaction. If you are kind, respectful, and willing to honor my boundaries, my door is open. Come say hello -- the Dark Fae are not nearly as frightening as the stories would have you believe.

Pure gentleman that believes in romance, friendship, and trust. Always enjoy a good conversation and love to golf!

A sissy boi looking to further her feminization to become a lovely sissy boi for a strong dominant man, never be seen as a male again, nor a female of course - seen as what i am deep down, a sub fem sissy boi.....

I tried on my first pair of pantyhose when I was 5 or 6 and have been hooked ever since. Growing up I would sneak into my mom’s room and try on everything I could. As a teen I kept fighting it, thinking there was something wrong with me and that I was the only one who felt the way I did. It wasn’t until I was married with kids that the I found sites where there were so many more like me. I finally put away my nerves and met with a guy. I haven’t been the same since. If you want to see pictures you can see them on my other profile on here, Sarasobad.

Love to chat with gurls. More will come later.

I just wanna be a girl, know what I mean?

Like to chat

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Lifetime admirer, new here.

Passable lady that is getting back to dressing!

I am 53-year-old admirer and living alone. I have been in this world for more that 30 years and enjoyed every day of it. i lived with a tgirl for 5 years and it was amazing. I am regular build, may be some chubby. I have face and body hair. Please check pictures. Brown eyes. I am looking for a gurl friend to chat and spend good times together. I would like to meet but it is not a must.

Michelle is a native of Wyoming but, moved to the wonderful beauty of the Colorado mountains. She's 67, 5'9",160lbs, with hazel eyes & reddish hair. She likes short skirts & tall heels. Michelle enjoys dressing,then going out shopping, dining & dancing. Looking for someone to join me on my outings. It could be a male looking for a date, a sister looking for company or a couple wanting to enjoy an evening out with someone new. Quiet evenings in are also fun.

A quick note on DMs: I value genuine substance and good conversation. If you decide to reach out, please bring a little more to the table than "HRU" or "how are you?" (And for the record—I'm doing great!). Let's skip the small talk and dive into a real conversation. Why am I here again? I miss the friendships I’ve made over the years and love exploring what makes me tick. I’m looking for real connection—not cyber, and not games.

Hi everyone, Older romantic trans admirer here. Very understanding, caring, and doesn’t judge! Dated trans girls in my past and love long walks, cuddling, giving massages and open doors. Hope everyone has a great day!!!

Low key guy looking to meet others. I have a huge nylon, pantyhose, tights fetish!

I am a middle age crossdresser who has been closeted forever. Wife knows but doesn't care for my love a femininity. I am finally ready to find some friends and see where this journey can go! Prefer my age or older. Better late then never...Right????

Accepting and discovering my female self while coping with gender dysphoria.

I enjoy my fem side any chance i get i'm clean smoke and drug free don't drink any alcohol no Tatoos or Peircings other than ears. I created bonnie after my Divorce as for many years had a desire to crossdress but kept it to myself and couldn't fully act on it. so went into discovery mode after my divorce and was on my own. then in 2011 gave up dressing mainly due to family and living condition changes for 12 years up until my bout with kidney cancer and had to have left kidney totally removed may 2022 then after recuperating about Aug 2023 decided to get back to being bonnie also exploring my fetish desires as well. I love being the CD Damsel in distress/Rope bunny

I like femininity, if a sissy cant pass then they are a sissyboi and they should strive to be as prissily feminine as a boi can be. If a sissy can pass then they should strive to become a sissylady in all regards and aspects of their lives. Old School, Conservative beliefs. My late wife’s best friend from childhood all the way till right after we got married has come back to live near her children with her spouse. We are completely sissifying and feminizing him to be our little sissy maid. Not looking to meet up as I have a submissive couple now living with me. Update: as of 6/1/26: my submissive couple has moved in with me and my MIL. Our sissy is now transitioning to fulltime sissygurl and is striving to be a true lady in all aspects of her life. Update: 7/1/26: it has been decided that my extended family is growing as not only have my submissive couple moved in with us but also both of their daughters and their 3 daughters. And as of 8/1/26 we will officially move into our new home for all 9 of us(which are already living in).

I'm just an easy going, down to earth shy girl, I'm just here to meet friends and to chat. I'm petite just under 5'3 115lbs Update - because I get asked a lot, yesI have a husband (he chats in here under the handle "jayofthe5"") and I met him right here on urna in 2009, and advice to any admirer looking for a tg gf, become friends and get to know us, be a gentleman, respectful, and just talk to us like a normal person, you'll have a much better chance of finding a tg gf...

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